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Advice to Myself
Dec. 28th, 2010 06:48 pmIf you feel like you're falling behind, the solution is sometimes to rest. Pushing harder sometimes leads to falling over, not catching up.
There is more than one dimension along which one can be misread.
Don't mistake free-floating worries for serious concerns, just because they've scuttled, hermit-crab-like, into some nearby shell.
Yes, it's hard to meet people who aren't terribly busy. The reasons for that should be obvious. On a related note, don't let the friendship paradox distort your self image.
You are not as transparent as you think you are. In fact, sometimes you're rather confusing.
Stop fretting. Stop doing things that are neither fun nor productive.
There is more than one dimension along which one can be misread.
Don't mistake free-floating worries for serious concerns, just because they've scuttled, hermit-crab-like, into some nearby shell.
Yes, it's hard to meet people who aren't terribly busy. The reasons for that should be obvious. On a related note, don't let the friendship paradox distort your self image.
You are not as transparent as you think you are. In fact, sometimes you're rather confusing.
Stop fretting. Stop doing things that are neither fun nor productive.
