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Liz and Eli were married last Sunday on the floor of the US Senate. (Actually the model Senate at the Edward M. Kennedy Institute for the Senate in Boston.) Was really great to be able to join them for the happy event.

(Also was an opportunity for Julie to give me a quick tour of her new lab after. Seemed like a pretty cool setup, though one bio lab seems much like another to me.)

Mary looked after Eris for the afternoon again while we were at the wedding. She brought over another gingerbread house for them to decorate, among other treats. So we're up to our ears in sweets, a state of affairs likely to persist through the holiday season.

I'm getting ready for the transition to new team at work, but the hard parts of the transition are now done. Leaves a little room for relaxation before the turn of the year.

The winter concert at the kid's school is tomorrow.
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Last weekend, I went back to Cleveland for the wedding of my friends Markos and Michelle. Was a very happy occasion, they're clearly a great match.

This was also my first time seeing my parents and brother in person in well over a year. Plus was my first experience with pandemic travel, and traveling alone is always a bit surreal these days. (Very grateful to Julie for holding down the fort.) Felt pretty out of place at the wedding for playing things very safe COVID-wise in circumstances where that probably didn't matter (both in terms of the overall risk probably being low given my vaccination and reduced overall prevalence, and the fact that wearing a mask some of the time at an indoor event with food and whatnot is probably not much of a mitigation when everyone else is clearly done with that). The numbers, the are getting good in Cleveland, and even better in the Boston area. Anyways, it was my first weekend that was really relaxing in over a year, which is kind of alarming.

In another week, my parents and brother will be visiting our area for a low-key family vacation. So that should be good.

I've been feeling more burned out at work and putting more effort into steering my career. My overall ability to learn and focus, while okay, is not currently great. It's hard to say how much of this is gradually increasing burnout continuing to gradually increase and how much is the pandemic grind. It's a stressful year. But I have been on my current team/project a long time. I get the same feeling about parenting. The new normal will be very different, but some of that will just be a five-year-old is very different from a four-year-old, and it will be hard to tell which is which.
l33tminion: (Conga!)
Friday: Went to one of WMBR's 50 Years of Boston Rock concert series at Cuisine en Locale at Anthony's (up on Highland in Somerville). Very cool venue. Mistle Thrush did not disappoint, all the music was great, and the sheer quantity of getting the band back together made for a fun atmosphere.

Saturday: Thomas and Melissa (friends from SCA dance) got married. Julie and I went to their wedding at St. James's Episcopal Church near Porter Square (my first time attending a church wedding ceremony). They had some cool wedding clothes (which Melissa made herself, including some really elaborate and beautiful embroidery), and there was a reception afterwards at the German-American Club in Walpole with board games and cake. (The German-American Club is a pretty cool event venue, I'd been there previously for SCA events. Aside from the usual things that would recommend a venue for large events, they have excellent beer and they're the only event venue I've seen with a cash bar that doesn't charge captive audience prices.) It was a wonderful time, and a very heart-warming occasion. Best wishes to the happy couple!

Sunday: Xave ran the game he wrote for Iron GM at Intercon again, so I had a chance to play it. Was fun.

This week is going to be busy in a good way, too. Yelp Elite fall party this evening, Rosh Hashana dinner with family on Wednesday, Fluff Festival next Saturday. The weather is getting colder and fall festivities abound!
l33tminion: Yay microbes (Microbes)
The good news is that today, I finally have some time to relax! Bad news, however, is "because I'm home with a terrible stomach bug".

Last weekend, went to my cousin Ben's wedding. Was great seeing so much of my family, and Rhinebeck, NY was really pretty.

The first part of that book discussion of Oryx and Crake that I participated in appeared in this week's episode of the C-Realm Podcast.

At work, I'm trying to get a project I've been working on a while completed, but it's accumulated so much stuff along the way that it's confusing to test and review. So trying to untangle that and get it tested and checked in piece by piece. There's so much to do.
l33tminion: (Conga!)
Last weekend was DJ and Michelle's wedding. I was honored to be in the wedding party. Many congratulations to the happy couple!

Work is still crazy. Last week got my promo feedback. The bad news is that I didn't get promoted, even though I'd thought my case was strong enough this time. The good news is I got more positive and more specific feedback than my last attempt: Work on larger projects with a broader scope, show leadership by doing things that facilitate / coordinate the efforts of a larger group. I've made some adjustments to my plans with those priorities in mind, and last week was wildly productive. I hope I can maintain that rate of productivity.

Today, I participated in a discussion of the book Oryx and Crake for the C-Realm Podcast. The book is worth reading if you like dystopian / apocalyptic fiction. Just checked the sequel out from the library.

The book group at work just finished a book of Joel Spolsky's essays, which was interesting but probably not very helpful in my day-to-day work. But our next choice is Working Effectively With Legacy Code, which I expect will be mind-explodingly relevant.

The weather is summery this weekend. Today was a beautiful day for biking, and I made it home just in time to avoid a torrential late-afternoon downpour. Temps getting up near 80 on Monday.

Julie is away this weekend visiting her folks for Mother's Day. Next weekend is my cousin Ben's wedding.
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The weekend before last, I was out of town at PyCon. It was fun representing Google at the career fair, and I enjoyed the talks I attended. I was able to work from the Montreal office that Monday before heading home. I see why people are so happy at that office, it's a neat little space with a small engineering team. Plus Montreal seemed like a pretty interesting and friendly city.

Some talks of note:A larger set of talks and tutorials is up here.

This weekend was marathon weekend, yet another weekend when all the things happen at once. Bergamot serves an amazing Easter brunch.

Getting ready for wedding season. DJ and Michelle are getting married in two weeks, my cousin Ben's wedding is two weeks after that.

The situation in Ukraine continues to be messed up.
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Not too much to report this week. I continue to be busy. Thank you notes have now been mailed. Work is going pretty well.

Going to Cleveland for Thanksgiving break all of next week.

My exercise routine was interrupted this week after a business crisis at Fitness Together. They're closed this week and opening under new management the next. My trainer is planning to move across the country in January, so I'll be working with someone new soon. But hopefully can continue to make progress on that after these few weeks of rest.
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Work is busy, and much of my free time is still occupied with wedding chores. I figure if I make good progress in the next few months, wedding chores will have taken only a year total.

The festival that Pandemonium Books ran last weekend was quite fun.

Thank you notes are taking a while, but with steady progress I hope to have them done (or all but done) before Thanksgiving. I've selected, organized, and archived wedding photos, and they're now all up here.

I'm trying to up my game at work. I'm working on a 20% project where I can do some pair programming with Xave, figuring out how to improve open-source tools my team uses, trying to contribute more to documentation and process improvements, and doing more studying (I joined a programming reading group at work and applied some training budget to books; my office has a bookshelf now!).

Bitcoin is booming again, the perpetual weird technology / finance story of the year.

Twitter had its IPO, and sure is worth a lot for a company that doesn't make any money.

Fall scenery is beautiful, but the weather has turned suddenly cold after being gloriously unseasonable for a bit.

It seems everyone I know is still getting sick. This year seems nearly as bad as last, sickness-wise.

Julie's mom is in town this weekend for a visit. It's great to see her again. We all enjoyed happy-hour appetizers at The Cheesecake Factory, I finally tried their avocado eggrolls (as good as I'd hoped!). Hopefully colds will not interfere too much with the weekend's plans.
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We're back!

Actually, we were back last week, but I haven't gotten around to sitting down and writing a post. Getting back to work was interesting. My new workplace at the expanded Google Cambridge office is pretty great.

Our return trip wasn't so bad, jet-lag-wise, though the long day of travel Sunday was pretty hard (5 hours of sleep, wake up at 4AM, then 28.5 hours awake with only intermittent naps on plane and train before bed at 8:30PM).

And the trip was awesome! We stayed in a little inn (Tama Ryokan in Shinjuku) and took in many of the sights of the city. We viewed the night skyline and several fireworks shows from the top of Tokyo Skytree. We saw the start of the summer festival in Chiba City, and the giant shrine at Narita. We had the chance to visit my host-mom and see some of my old haunts from study away (though the university was apparently closed at the time). We ate lots of great street food, amazing pastry and coffee at cute cafes, elaborate desserts, fancy sushi (near Tokyo's famous fish market) and convenient sushi (at Genki Sushi, where orders are placed on a touch-screen display and whisked to your seat via trays on a magnetic rail), and delicious grilled eel.

We took a day-trip to Hakone, visiting the teahouse at Amazake Chaya and taking sightseeing ferry across Lake Ashi, but unfortunately arriving at Owakudani a bit too late to do anything aside from take a quick look at the view and immediately catch the last ropeway car out. But still had an amazing evening at the Hakone Yuryo hot springs (arriving just in time to stay out of a dramatic thunderstorm), with its beautiful baths and a restaurant with charcoal hearths set into the center of the tables and the most delicious roasted fish I've ever had.

We ventured out to Itabashi to seek out the izakaya of a famous Iranian-Japanese portrait artist, only to find the shop closed, the owner out of town for a television appearance. But we found a lovely izakaya around the corner, Izakaya Hanami, an exceptionally clean (hard to find non-smoking izakayas), pretty, and welcoming shop that was clearly a labor of love for the proprietors, Mr. and Mrs. Tadashi. The shop was decorated with model trains and train photographs taken by Mr. Tadashi, a train enthusiast and former railroad engineer. The proprietors and all the regulars were very kind to us wayward tourists and were very patient with my limited Japanese.

The only downsides to the trip were the weather (unusually hot and humid, not cooling down until close to the end of the trip) and that I came down with a throat infection in the middle of it (requiring a trip to the doctor, made me glad that Google provides really top-of-the-line trip insurance for its employees). Nothing that could really mar a great vacation.

It was wonderful for us to be able to take some time together without any worries about chores or work (for the most part, Julie managed to call in to at least one meeting).

Since getting back, I've set up at my new office, started in on post-wedding chores, and done a bit of cooking (our vegetable deliveries resumed on Friday, and earlier in the week I made madeleines).
l33tminion: Mind the gap (Train)
What a week!

Wedding festivities happened with only a moderate amount of me running around stressed out about logistics. But I didn't get too stressed out, and the logistics were handled.

Our wedding announcement was published in the Times.

All the events were really beautiful, it was great to see all the planning come together, and to share the occasion with so many friends and family. The toasts and well-wishes were amazing. The ceremony was all that I'd hoped. I took far too long on couple's photos afterwards, inadvertently delaying everyone's brunch (feel a bit embarrassed about that), but that still turned out great.

So much thanks to everyone involved, starting with our parents!

It was great to see my niece Emilia in person for the first time, she's adorable, already very strong and outgoing at two months old.

I'm now on a train to NYC with Julie. From there, flying direct to Tokyo this evening. Hopefully we'll have a fascinating and relaxing vacation. I'm sure it will be a great start.
l33tminion: -- Affection! -- (Affection!)
Going to be married in two days. Moving from planning to implementation.

DJ and Michelle announced their engagement a few days ago.

Kelcy and David (friends from Olin) are getting married a week after me.

Coincidentally, this is my last day at the ITA Office (aka Google-US-CAM-141). More than five years, quite a long time. It's the end of an era.
l33tminion: Nana nananananana na na harder better faster stronger (Exercise)
I will be married in two weeks, and I'm exhausted. Most of the wedding logistics are now handled, save for a few minor things: Haircut next weekend, coordinating day-of logistics with my minions, getting a bit more detailed plan information to photographer.

Work is very busy, there's some complicated stuff I really want to wrap up before I head off on honeymoon. Julie is in a similar situation.

I've been making good use of my Hubway membership, and have a lot of good things to say about that service. Being able to do one-way trips by bike on impulse is really convenient. Especially when the weather is as variable as it's been lately. At least it's cooled off from last week's heat wave.

I'm keeping up with exercise, and have managed to take a little time to relax and celebrate, so that's good. Xave ran a short Nobilis game, which was fun. Haven't been dancing or climbing lately, but there's a new rock gym very close to my house, which I'll have to check out when I'm back in town.
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I'm back from camp!

My week away from everything was very relaxing. Mainly, I did a lot of reading. My reading list:
  • VALIS by Phillip K Dick: Phillip K Dick's book about how Phillip K Dick is crazy
  • REAMDE by Neal Stephenson: My one Neal Stephenson book per year, a pretty quick read for a thousand page book
  • 2312 by Kim Stanley Robinson: Weird-topian sci-fi, good, very strange
  • Debt: The First 5000 Years by David Graeber: Fascinating economic history, really cuts to the heart of some of what's wrong about modern economics
  • Cooked by Michael Pollan: Not as good as The Omnivore's Dilemma, but if you liked that you'll probably like this as well
  • The Windup Girl by Paolo Bacigalupi: Dystopian biopunk novel, suspenseful, clever, and disturbing
I also spent some time watching the wildlife (unusually bold deer, a mother duck herding a dozen ducklings, a very angry sparrow attacking a fleeing squirrel), went on a shopping trip to Wolfeboro, played cribbage, and had some long conversations with my parents.

I was back from camp last Saturday, and went immediately back to being completely swamped with work and wedding logistics.

It's been good weather for biking, so I've been enjoying my new Hubway membership.

My birthday was yesterday, Julie treated me to a lovely birthday dinner at TW Foods.

Getting married in a month!
l33tminion: Mind the gap (Train)
I've put up some selections from the engagement photoshoot at the beginning of June.

My parents are in town this week, so Julie and I have had a chance to visit family friends with them. Tomorrow, I'm off to Sandy Island Camp with my parents (consequently, I will be offline for a week). Julie is not coming along this year due to insufficient vacation time. It will be odd to be at Sandy with just me and my parents, that hasn't happened since I was very young (not since my sister was born).

I've been incredibly tired this week. Partly due to the weather (though it's fortunately cooled down the last few days). Partly it's that work and wedding planning have been incredibly busy. I'm looking forward to the vacation, plan to relax and read and catch up on sleep.

Thinking about saying something about news / current events / politics, but I'll leave that for when I get back.
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My vacation last weekend to San Francisco for my cousin David's wedding was pretty great. Why am I not getting to posting about that until this weekend? Well, I started getting sick on Monday, and arrived home late Wednesday to the lethal combo of killer cold, jet lag, and sudden 90-degree weather. And I've been doing a bunch of cleaning prior to housemate switchover (DJ's departure and Josh's arrival). (A bit of cooking, too.) And trying to hit the ground running as soon as I got back to work. So I've been fairly flattened.

All the wedding festivities were very fun, though. A great dinner with the family, a picnic on Angel Island, late-night pre-wedding karaoke, and the ceremony itself, held on the Eureka (a museum ferry-boat docked off of Hyde Street Pier). The ceremony was amazing, if a bit windy, and the reception was incredibly fancy. Hard act to follow.

The rest of the vacation was pretty great, too. Did some shopping, met a long-time acquaintance for the first time in person ([livejournal.com profile] chiaki777, glad we had the chance to meet!), visited Berkeley (and spent much of that time hanging out in a cafe near the UC Berkeley campus, helping Julie hack on some debugging related to one of her projects), visited the Museum of the Long Now again, ate some amazing food. The area around Fort Mason is beautiful, too, and walking along the shore in the morning before the crowds get thick is quite pleasant.

I was very glad to be able to convince Julie to take a bit of a vacation. We both like San Francisco quite a bit, it's such a great city to walk around. We've both been before, but this was our first time visiting together.

As for my own wedding, invitations are out, yay! Still many logistical details to pin down, but stuff is getting done.
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Boston has weathered a big blizzard and is continuing to dig out, even though the last of the snow fell Saturday morning. Roads are mostly clear, though Somerville has kept the snow emergency on while they continue to dig out hydrants and lots. Many area schools closed Friday and continue to be closed through tomorrow. The MBTA closed early Friday and was out Saturday and (mostly) Sunday, but today was back to normal service. I went home early Friday afternoon and finished the work day remotely.

My office suffered severe damage from a burst pipe when a window was left slightly ajar in the storm. My house has done better, the basement isn't significantly flooded so far. Saturday was cold, but a mild Sunday and positively balmy Monday (starting with freezing rain but closing the day in the mid-40s) have made for a lot of snow melting at once. It's fortunate that tonight is warm, too, or we'd have a lot of ice to contend with.

Overall I'm glad that the state took extreme measures to encourage people to go home early on Friday (a state-wide ban on non-emergency traffic starting at 4:30PM on Friday, not lifted until 24-hours later), especially after seeing photos from the Long Island Expressway, where drivers were trapped in the storm. While the storm was less powerful than the blizard of '78, comparisons to that turned out to be not as outlandish as I'd expected.

Snow days are still pretty fun when you're safe and sound and have somewhere warm to hide out, and the restaurants, bars, and cafes around Inman and Union tried to make the most of things, so the snow day weekend was still pretty fun.

Also in my life, wedding planning is ramping up. I'm getting a lot organized, but there's a lot to do, and it's stressing me out. I've started having the same recurring stress dream that I occasionally had in college: I'm in high school (nominally "college" (or, in the new series, "grad school") but all the detail are like high school) and I'm failing to get my work done because I'm incapacitated by exhaustion after the first few class periods or unable to get out of bed. It's one of those dreams that seems real when you wake up, until it becomes clear that none of it make any sense.

Anyways, things are okay. Seems like the weather will continue to be relatively warm the rest of this week, so hopefully the slush won't be bad for too long.
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Took a mini-vacation to NYC this weekend, which was fun. Saw some friends and family (Aunt Ellen and Uncle Mark and their family, also my other cousin Ben and his fiancée), ate bagels and borscht, visited The Cloisters, caught a photography exhibition done by one of my cousins, drank lots of coffee, talked a lot about weddings.

Wedding planning has begun in earnest. There are a lot of logistics to figure out, but even focusing on the big structure of where and when is a lot of work. Everyone's asking me if we've decided on a date, we're pinning that down as quickly as we can.
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Wednesday: Dinner with Michelle. Probably the last for a while. She's still serious about present boyfriend, so things ain't gonna work out between the two of us, and I need some time to collect myself before we could hang out in a different context.

Thursday-Friday: Trip for Dan's wedding. Travel went relatively smoothly. The rehearsal dinner (at a manor house turned function hall) was amazing. The ceremony itself was beautiful (I got to hold the chuppah for Dan) and somewhat complex (to mostly paraphrase Markos: two Buddhists (well, one Tibetan Buddhist, one atheist-turned-something-or-other), the children of Jews and Presbyterians, respectively, married in a Jewish ceremony in a Quaker meeting house, one of the groomsmen wore a dress and two of the bridesmaids wore tuxes,* there was no air conditioning). Also, Dan is now married?! Seriously, couldn't be prouder of the guy, he found a great match.

Saturday: Errands, house showings, hanging out with Ames (went to see The Girl Who Played with Fire, followed by dinner, followed by ice-cream, followed by hanging out at the house of yet another friend, picking up more and more of Ames's social circle as we went along). Heat wave continues.

Today: Brunch with ODan (Boston Dan aka [livejournal.com profile] octopusdan, to distinguish from [livejournal.com profile] krint01 above) and EHawk, if all goes according to plan. (Original plans canceled.) Intermittent power. (Rolling blackouts?) Heat wave etc.

* And were probably the most handsome ones there, though everyone in a tux (self included) was exceptionally handsome. Seriously, those hats!
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Last Tuesday: Talked books with a crowd of Charles Stross fans at CBC, briefly said hello to Stross himself.

Wednesday: Dinner with my family at Piccolo Nido. The food is fantastic.

Thursday: DDR and Rock Band with Nurit.

Friday-Sunday: Trip to Maine with family for cousin's wedding. The wedding ceremony was beautiful, the reception had home-brewed beer and wedding cupcakes, the newlyweds make quite an adorable couple. Was awesome, got in a nice hike by the seaside with my parents, too.

Sunday afternoon: DJ is now moved in at the Grotto. Went to see the sand sculptures on Revere Beach with DJ, DJ's mom, and Ginneh. Ginneh is departing for Texas later this week, I hope she'll still find time to visit Boston.

Today: Went to see Inception with Julia. Amazing, mind-bending film. Go see it. (And then read this and this and this.)
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